The 3 Keys to Selling: A Guide for Success

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by Jevon Wooden

Selling is a critical aspect of any business and a crucial skill for anyone looking to succeed in their career. Whether you are a salesperson, entrepreneur, or working in a customer-facing role, knowing how to sell effectively is an essential part of your toolkit. However, selling can be complex and challenging, and it is necessary to understand the fundamental principles that drive successful sales.

In this blog post, I will outline the three keys to selling and provide actionable tips for implementing these principles in your selling approach.

1. Understanding Your Customer

The first key to selling is to understand your customer truly; taking the time to get to know their needs, challenges, and motivations, as well as their buying process and decision-making criteria. You can gather this information through direct conversations with the customer, researching their company and industry, and understanding their unique pain points and requirements. When you deeply understand your customer, you can tailor your sales approach to their specific needs, making it much easier to build rapport and close the sale.

2. Building Relationships

The second key to selling is to build strong relationships with your customers. Relationships are the foundation of any successful sales effort. They are built on trust, respect, and a genuine interest in helping your customer solve their problems. You can build relationships by actively listening to your customer, being responsive to their needs, and demonstrating your expertise and value. Establishing a solid relationship with your customer will create a foundation for future sales and increase the likelihood of repeat business.

3. Closing the Sale

Closing the deal is the most critical part of the sales process. To complete the sale, you must be confident, clear, and concise in your sales pitch and effectively address any customer concerns. Additionally, it is vital to ask for the sale. Many sales are lost simply because the salesperson never explicitly asked for the business.


The three keys to selling are understanding your customer, building relationships, and closing the sale. Focusing on these three fundamental principles can improve your selling skills and achieve greater success in your sales efforts. Remember, selling is a skill that can be learned and developed over time, so be persistent, stay positive, and keep practicing.


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Jevon Wooden is the founder of Live Not Loathe, a business coaching and consulting firm specializing in marketing and sales strategy. He is also an author, keynote speaker, and US Army Veteran. His mission is to help business leaders and entrepreneurs increase revenue and decrease stress while having more time to do what they love.

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Jevon Wooden is the founder of Live Not Loathe, a business coaching and consulting firm specializing in marketing and sales strategy. He is also an author, keynote speaker, and US Army Veteran. His mission is to help business leaders and entrepreneurs increase revenue and decrease stress while having more time to do what they love.

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